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I started a devotional last week called frumps to pumps. Of course I started it last week but keep forgetting so I'm only on day 4 :) It's basically encouraging women to get dressed! Feel better about yourself, be more productive.
The idea of getting dressed up for the day somehow turns into an occasional thing since I've become a stay at home mom/wife. When I worked full time I was dressed nice every day! And who was I dressing for? Well for starters I most certainly could not show up in whatever I pleased. You don't go to work in jammies, or workout gear. Those are the rules. You're dressed nicely for your boss, co-workers, customers, clients, etc. You're representing the company you work for! You want to look presentable, respectable, and just plain put together.
So when I turned that around to how am I representing my home, my family and my faith? I have to admit I am pretty embarrassed. My typical look for each day is workout gear, or lounge wear with my hair up in a bun, or ponytail. Whether or not I actually worked out! How can I expect to be respected, or taken seriously from anyone when I'm not taking myself seriously? If I'm not caring about myself, am I properly caring for my home and family?
"...whatever you do, do it all for the Glory of God"
1 Corinthians 10:31
Am I glorifying God when I dress frumpy most of the time and don't care how I'm perceived by others? No, God does not care how I'm dressed, and nor does it matter what other's think of me, but I have to ask myself if I'm doing my best when I get dressed for my day. What am I trying to accomplish each day? I want to glorify God! I want everything I do to be for Him first. Shouldn't I do my best to at least look pretty? In my heart I know I did not do my best when I simply throw on a slightly wrinkled outfit, and push my hair back into a ponytail to make sure I get out the door in time.
The same goes for my husband. Shouldn't I want to please him and be my very best for him? Doesn't he deserve to come home to the girl he fell in love with that would be dressed cute just to see him, and not a frumpy wife? And should you actually feel pretty perhaps you will be in the mood too when your hubby is ;) Which we all know is ALWAYS! LOL. (Hey we're being honest here right?!)
And shouldn't Caden see me at my best too? And learn what it means to respect yourself and represent your family in a positive way?
For me the answers to these questions is a big YES! And don't you just feel more productive when you are dressed ready to tackle the day? Ready if someone should drop by, or if you need to drive to the store really quick? No fear if you should run into someone you know!
I had heard and read many blogs and articles regarding the subject of getting dressed for the day for us homemakers. But for some reason it never clicked until I compared it to how I was representing God and my family. Do I want to be a frump? No, no I dont. Do I have to be a fashionista? Absolutely not! But whatever I wear I will be dressed for success and Glorifying God in ALL THAT I DO.
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I have been a real frump since Jonathan went to heaven-- big sigh. I know I need to work on that I actually left the house in my PJ's today....scary. Thanks for the encouragement! You are so pretty your husband probably dose not care if you wear a burlap sack. LOL
ReplyDeleteHmmm ... something for me to think about. I am a casual girl, all the way - my husband fell in love with me in flannel shirts (*blush*). I'll have to ask him what he thinks of what I wear around the house now (old jeans and t-shirts, mostly). Can I "do everything to the glory of God" in comfies?
ReplyDeleteI appreciate this post, Jessi. Very thought provoking!
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This is a fantastic post. I guess glorifying God in EVERYTHING means EVERYTHING! Thanks for encouraging us to be glorifying to Him in all we do.
ReplyDeleteThis is so good! I like the challenge to take care of ourselves because our kids are watching!
ReplyDeleteI came over from To Love, Honor and Vacuum and just wanted to say I agree with your perspective and am currently working on this. I've been home for 15 years now and much of that time have put almost no thought into my appearance, besides wearing clothes that fit(mostly) and brushing my hair. Oh, and showering once in a while, lol! It has been hard to see the point when I'm home by myself most of the time.
ReplyDeleteBut lately I've been thinking a lot about this. I realize I am much more attracted to my husband when he's cleaned up for work, and I realized he would be more attracted to me in the same way. Why wouldn't he? We all make judgements on what we see in front of us. Just yesterday I was standing in line at the grocery store and mentally making over a pretty but frumpy young mom. Then I looked down at my own clothes and realized not only was my hair totally frizzy but I was wearing the sloppy jeans and an old sweatshirt that I cleaned house in. I had left my house looking like that! Without any thought.
I am trying to get into a new routine so I don't really have to give this thought, but where I take the time each day before leaving the house (or even at home) to shower, dress nicely, put on a little makeup and make sure my hair looks good.
Our men in our lives, including our children, are visual. God made them that way. As women of the Lord we need to pray for strength to accomplish this task daily. Cause we can't do it on our own, especailly for me, cause I like to come home from work and put my jammies on or my stained loose sweat clothes on. Lol Lord help me!
ReplyDeleteSuch a great post! I agree, totally. I am laughing outloud though because I'm wearing dirty sweats and have my hair in a ponytail. {I've been sick all day}
ReplyDeleteI have 3 big kids (21,19 & 18) the two younger girls. They are so fashion savvy. Neither of them would get caught dead running to the store in pj's or sweats. They put on decent clothes even to run a video back. I love it and they are known as BEST DRESSED in our community.
I always put on my clothes and makeup everyday when they were little & growing up. Even if we went nowhere, I was ready. Looking good really does make you feel better and get more accomplished.
Unless....you're an old sick lady! ;)
Gee, sorry for all the grammar goofs!
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